
Absolutely, gone are the days when romantic affairs are usually ended
with one person calling it quit through face to face or through a
message sent to the other person. These days, people embark on what I
call a ‘silent withdrawal’.
GLTRENDS put together in this piece 7 ways to know that you are no longer in a guy’s life
1) He becomes too busy: When a guy loves you and he is into you, no
amount of work load can prevent him from having quality time with you;
except he doesn’t reside in the same town as you. When a guy becomes too
busy to share quality time with you, just know that it could be
possible that you have expired in his life! You need to re-evaluate your
stand, gurl.
2) He hardly call like he used to: When a guy doesn’t call you as he
used to, you have probably expired in his life! The fact is that his
precious air time has been re-directed to another person who his heart
desires. You need to dust your a*s and move on, gurl! I know it’s
painful.
3) He wouldn’t allow you to meet his family members as promised: If
he has promised to take you to his parents and other family members
previously but now unwilling to do that, it is a very clear sign that
you have expired in his life! He must have switched gears and changed
plans. The truth is that he doesn’t consider you worthy to be introduced
as a wife-to-be!
4) He becomes less generous with his money: No reasonable guy wants
to continue investing in the life of someone he doesn’t want to share
the future with. Guys normally think it is a waste of resources taking
care of the needs of a lady who they are not into. If he has been
generous with his cash but now, you can’t even get a torn 10 Naira note
from him, even when you can clearly see that he’s financially stable,
you should start buckling your shoes to leave.
5) He always avoids meeting you: When a guy starts avoiding you, you
might have expired! Whenever you say you are coming over, there’s always
one excuse you would get why you won’t meet him at home. If you ask him
to come over to your place, that’s when he becomes too busy or ‘not in
town’ .
6) He doesn’t mind taking calls from random girls in your presence:
Haven’t you read the hand-writing on the wall? Has he been like this in
the past? He’s indirectly telling you that your feeling or opinion
doesn’t matter anymore!
7) He doesn’t take you out anymore: Yes! He doesn’t do that because
he doesn’t want people to see the both of you together. The more they
see both of you together, the more it seems like every thing is working
CREDIT: GLTRENDS